#162 The deeper the pain, the more you gain (13/07/2025)

Photo: New shops in Tuen Mun, finally some in the northwest.

No one likes pain, but recently I've undeniably discovered that many things in life, the more unforgettable the pain and torment you experience, the more unbearable the suffering, the better it is for me personally.

Many people might think I'm crazy or have masochistic tendencies when they hear this, but it's the truth. A comfortable life can't bring out your potential or make you do things that others can't. Only extreme pain and torment can force everyone to find ways to survive and then actually achieve something good. Many people may not admit it, but I believe that the vast majority of people know deep down that this is indeed the truth.

Over the past few years, and even now, I've experienced a lot of psychological pain and pressure, especially now. Sometimes I feel like a "reluctant businessman," working alone, and sometimes it really feels so difficult, so tiring, that I don't want to continue. But I understand that "feelings" and actual actions can be separated. That is, even if you feel it's hard, it has nothing to do with whether you should or shouldn't complete the task. No matter how hard it is, you still have to finish it, that's how it is. And because the greater the hardship and pain you experience, the more you will naturally rise to the challenge, continue to find solutions, and ultimately achieve greater results.

It's like forcing yourself to work through every night without rest. It's tough, but it brings out your potential. If you're comfortable and relaxed, you're unlikely to achieve anything.

Of course, everything mentioned above depends on the individual. Everyone's tolerance and strength are different. For example, I'm afraid of heights, so I might not be able to do a parachute jump if asked. Also, everyone's tolerance for psychological pressure is different, so you have to act according to your abilities. However, the above theories should actually be applicable to many people's situations.